Am I a goldigger?

I have been seeing this guy for 6mos now we have a ual relationship as well as good conversation. I never thought we would be more then friends with benefits but we became more intimate and started spending more time together like bf and gf I could tell he wanted more because he asked what we were and said we should go out neways I started wanting more I was sick and he came over I asked him to bring me oj and he didn't around Halloween I to him he should take me to see a scary movie I asked him he said I should take him when I got mad he said he would take me then later he tells me he thought I demanded him....he still hasn't taken me also he said he thought I wanted handouts because I was hungry and asked him to bring me food whoopi!!!!! I'ts not like I asked him to give me his wallet right whats wrong with him most guys don't mind how am I a goldigger i'm used to guys taking me out on dates and buying me flowers and never took advantage he said he wasnt raised like that HELP!!